Have you ever presented a talk with a shy voice where you hardly moved your lips while speaking? Have you gone to speak at your event and your voice was gritty or shaky? After you pressed record for your video blog, did you notice you had to clear your voice or maybe cough to get a clear sound?
Don’t start your important message with a cold voice! Warm her up.
Here are 3 quick vocal warm ups for presenting with ease!
- Tongue Twisters
- Diaphragm pops
- The M’s
Tongue twisters are a fun and effective way to warm up your whole lip and mouth area for fuller expression with speaking! Your pronunciation will be brought to a new level too with these tongue twisters so the consonants you are speaking get articulated and heard. Try saying these 4 tongue twisters 5-10 times before your event.
1- Black bugs blood is blue
2- Unique New York
3- Wayne went to Wales to watch walruses.
4- A proper cup of coffee from a proper copper coffee pot.
Diaphragm pops are warming up with words that contract the diaphragm muscle which is your main breathing muscle that sits right along the bottom of the rib cage. Getting the diaphragm enlivened and ready for action with fuller breaths to support longer bouts of talking, will give you a smooth approach and your listeners will find your speaking more easeful to listen to.
The consonants to play with are P, D, & Sh
say words like “Pop” “Dirty Dog” and “Shush” – say these normally, then say them with a “staccato” approach, quick and short.
The M’s are to get your vocal chords moving with the breath as well as create awareness of the 4 resonant chambers so you have a nice even quality to your voice and your audience will want to listen to your words.
Say: Ma, Me, Mi, Mo, Moo
First say these M’s so that your chest vibrates, then say it like the words were marbles in your mouth and you were trying not to let them fall out, thirdly, say them like you were the wicked witch of the west with a nasal tone, finally, turn into Glenda the good witch and say the words in an upper fairy head voice way.
Give these 3 quick vocal warm ups a try for presenting with ease and see if your voice has more presence, articulation and expression for your important message!
All the best!
We may not think much of our voice until we have to get up and do a presentation, or get on camera or sing a song. However, each moment our voice has a lot to say.
Your voice can be a window to your soul.
When your voice is free I venture to say you are feeling more free inside to be your true self. When your voice is free you have a confidence and ease with showing up and being heard. At least this is what I have experienced. Thru the years here are some affirmations I have used to stay open with my voice when I have been on stage. May these 7 affirmations to free your voice be a contribution to you! Your Brilliance can change the world!
- My VOICE is my Power
- I am being sung by source energy
- I expand my energy and let go of judgments
- If I can breath, I can talk, If I can talk I can sing
- My voice is a unique contribution to the world
- My body is open and free to express my voice
- I trust the brilliance that comes thru my voice
How to use these affirmations:
1-First Aid: When you find yourself feeling self conscious or uncomfortable -contracted in your body and inhibited yet your still aware of a “green light” energy of “go do this”, pick one of these affirmations to use or several. Use them on the spot!
2-Personal practice: If you are aware of a specific pattern that shows up you can pick the affirmation that lights you up and say it as a mantra practice morning and night. Say it 10-30 times at a sitting. (or in the car, this is were I get a lot of my transformational practice done LOL) This will help you rewire your experience with using your voice.
With these affirmations under your belt you will begin to find more ease with your video blogs, speaking in a room full of people, making a presentation or even with speaking to your children.
I love questions. IF you have any let me know in the comments!
Could you use more help with freeing your voice? I offer Vocal empowerment sessions that are a deep transformational journey of self discovery to free your voice I would love to support you!
- All the best
Stress can really get us in a state that at first feels enlivening and exciting. It’s is that fight or flight response the body goes thru when it needs to “fight off a lion”. However, left as a default mode, it can not only wreak havoc on our physical body with symptoms such as not being able to sleep, exhaustion, edginess, unwanted belly fat, poor digestion so on and so forth, it can also wreak havoc on our self esteem and our ability to “shine bright”. We can begin to get down on ourselves and depression can set in.
Today I want to share with you a fun way to BLAST STRESS AWAY!
The trick to keeping the fight or flight response balanced in the body is to keep the energy in the body flowing like an even steam. You can do this with your perceptions around what is happening in your life and you can do this with SOUND!
Lets talk about sound today!
There is a phenomena in the SOUND HEALING world where you find out the sound of the disfunction in cells, play it back and help them implode and get destroyed. What if we could do that to the build up of energy in our body with stress. I have been doing this myself as well as with clients and it seems to do a great job in BLASTING STRESS AWAY.
So this is what you do:
- Find a quiet place to “tune in” to you.
- Then start to feel where there is tension or a heaviness in your body
- From there pay attention to that area. As you tune in become aware of the color in that area (if it had a color what color would it be)
- Now once you have tuned into the tension and the color begin to see if it has a sound. It may be a groan, a vowel sound or a weird indescribable sound
- Would you be willing to give the tension energy a voice without judging the sound that comes out?
- Keep making the sound until it begins to shift or soften
- Then go to the next sound you that comes up…. and the next
Once you get the hang of this, it is a really easy way to release tension from your perception of stress. I do it in the car, I do it when I’m doing my social networking, in the shower, on my walks. It is a really mobile effective and pragmatic practice to keep your lifeforce energy flowing with ease. When that lifeforce energy is flowing with ease, the body’s signal for the “flight or flight” response does not activate and you will not have the cascade effect of the stress response in the body that after a while can really wreak havoc on your sense of wellbeing.
Guess what this means?
You will feel really good. You will have a sense of ease and trust in yourself. You will have the ability to shine bright your true nature that is attractive and sexy in everybody!!
Sing your stress song then go shine bright!!!
Is this part of your brilliance?
While I do agree sometimes with being present with what is, there are moments in our life where grumpy is just not going to cut it. Being grumpy in front of a room full of people you have to do an inspiring speech to or getting on camera for your marketing video or being a chaperone for your first graders field trip … Sorry Grumpy is not just not going to cut it!
I’m glad you came here today because I have a tool for you to use that is my #1 key to going from grumpy to great! I have visited grumpy a lot and this is what I have found to help! I have used this so many times when I was in a grumpy space and I had to get on stage with a big audience in front of me, Yikes. You know what? It has worked every time for me and has allowed me to engage and connect vulnerably with my audience. I’m so grateful! I hope you have fun with this and helps you go from grumpy to great in a pinch!
Tool: EXPAND YOUR ENERGY
You see being grumpy, comes from buying into a reality of a past story, pattern, judgment or belief – yours or someone else’s. It doesn’t matter if it is yours or someone else’s this tool will work. When we “buy into” a story on an energetic level it becomes dense, energy contracts. At least that is how I see it.
Your natural state of being is an infinite being of source energy that vibrates high and expands far and wide.
When we are in a grumpy space part of us doesn’t believe in this expanded version of ourselves and we sense a contracted dense heavy space of being. It tends to not feel too good, unless we are so used to it it becomes what is more comfortable then feeling expanded and light.
When you feel this grumpy heavy sensation instead of going more into the story of it all see if you can expand the heavy dense energy you feel. Ask for your energy to expand out to the 4 corners of the room you are in, if you are able to do that and it feels a little lighter, then expand it even further past the town you are in, past the state, then the country, now to the stars.
Would an infinite being feel heavy and contracted? By expanding your energy you are revisiting and remembering the greatness you are and the space of glorious beingness that is always there for you to be. You can always revisit a story if you want to later. But for now if you require your mood and energy to shift to be brilliant, dynamic and confident in what the present moment is requiring of you – EXPAND YOUR ENERGY!
This may seem simple, but the unseen world response to intensions, thoughts and energy. So if it could be simple and easy, would you be willing to allow it to be so. Would you be willing to believe in your brilliance to shift and change on a dime. Would you be willing to choose your greatness?
Questions? I’m happy to hear them!! Just comment below
All the best,
When it comes down to it, what really works?
What works to get your message heard? What works to sing beautifully? What works to get the clients you desire? What works to parent with ease? What works to really get what you think you desire?
After many years of looking at a lot of how to books, a lot of business and spiritual and psychological philosophy the one common thread I’ve seen is CHOICE! What would it take to fully 100% choose the change you are asking for.
Hint: if you are wining and complaining and still in the story of change not happening to you yet – you have not choosen change yet… no big deal … choose it when you are ready. But be aware, that the energy of the story of what you don’t have yet, cues the universe to match your life with that energy of what you don’t have yet.
So a question you may want to ask your self is, “Am I really choosing “it” ? (whatever it is for you)
Am I really choosing to be potent as hell and for my message to be heard and for my voice to be a powerful agent of expression that creates change in the world?
Am I willing to be BOLD, BRAVE AND BODACIOUS?
The energy of choice brings a laser like focus to what you are asking. This laser focus makes any modality or “how to model” work.
YOU are the power behind the change, not the modality, not the bullet points, not the tools or techniques.
There are so many tools, practices, modalities, schools of thought, organizations, etc. All of them have their levels of success. The key ingredient? YOU! Are you willing to choose, focus like never before, tune into the truest part of you, listen and be aware? Then you are choosing change and you will see change occur!
Vocal awareness equals more ease with parenting?
Vocal Awareness is being aware of what is happening with your voice at any given time of the day. There is information in the volume, the tone, the pitch and the quality of your voice that you can use to make some choices that will support you in your parenting.
Are you showing up for your children?
Are you being present with them?
Are you getting the results from your children that work for you in your home?
Are you totally resourced and aligned with your true self while communicating with them?
This is all in your voice and you can begin to listen to your voice with ears and awareness that will help you take a step back and ask questions like, “What is this? Who am I being? Is this working? ”
When you can take a step back to ask these questions you will begin to become more aware of what is going on for you. For example, maybe you are asking your boys to clean up their dishes. Notice the tone you are using. Are they hearing your? Do you have overwhelm in your voice? Is your voice monotone? Is it loud? Does it have a nagging tone to it? Is it working? Are your boys responding?
By becoming aware of where you are and what tone you are using, you open your self up to making a conscious choice of where to speak from. If you notice that you have overwhelm in your voice and your boys are not responding, (because really who wants to get near someone in over whelm) you then can tune in to you, expand your energy by taking a deep breath and use a tone that would work better.
Our tone of voice can let us know if we are tired, annoyed, frustrated, scared, overwhelmed, bored, mad etc. The cool part about becoming aware of your voice is that you can then consciously pick a tone that will work for the situation but not make vital the feeling behind it.
For example, many boys respond more ease fully to a stern louder voice. What if you could be that potency with out feeling stern? It is just an aware choice. Most parenting experts agree that if you can be stern with out being invested in an emotion behind it, the children will see a more emotionally regulated adult and learn emotional health as a result.
As a parent your voice is powerful and it is that much more powerful if you become aware of what your voice is really saying and make conscious choices about how to use it.
Bottom line: Vocal Awareness really does equal easeful parenting!