Know Your WHY For Your Best Voice

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Know your why and you may tap into your best voice yet!

WHY  DO YOU DO WHAT YOU DO?

What is the underlying driving force that keeps you inspired to keep going with what you are doing?

Do you know what your answers are to these two questions?

If not then start taking a deeper look – this may help you find a voice and personal expression that could make all the difference with your business!

When you know your “Why” then you have a tool to get thru any discomfort or shyness.

Your deepest “Why” will give you the extra fuel you may need to keep talking to an audience even though you really want to hide behind a chair.

Take a moment NOW;  find a piece of paper and pen;  breath; begin writing about your biggest motivating factor. These may be things like: to provide for my children, to bring peace to the planet, to help people out of suffering, to contribute to humanity thru music. Whatever it is write it down, get familiar with it and know it!

When you have this “Why” in tact then you have an anchor that will prevent you from running away whenever you get uncomfortable or scared. When you are sharing your message in front of an audience, You will get uncomfortable, You will get wobbly, you will feel fear. However, if you always keep with  your deepest “Why” then you can allow the discomfort to pass on thru like a passing wave.

You have a mission and your ” Why”  will keep you on coarse leaving the fear, anxiety and discomfort as insignificant. 

Focusing on Fear and discomfort can ruin a public appearance and can prevent you from engaging with your audience.  Tune into your “Why” and see your best voice  come forth!

 

Speak Out Loud from Your Heart to Your Voice

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Speak Out Loud with passion from Your Heart to Your Voice.  Speaking your passion out loud is a birthright that sometimes we forget we have. What if speaking your passion was the contribution the world was waiting to receive?

SOOOO, What is stopping you?

Dare to speak out loud

Dare to speak out loud

We are all really good at having our points of view and our perspectives about what would make the world great and what would help the planet. But when it comes to Speaking that out loud to  a group of people, well sometimes  the bright passion tends to fizzle out in the interpretation from our heart to our voice.

Have you noticed that your passion once it leaves your mouth can get a serious tone to it? Have you noticed that you may get righteous or pushy? Have you noticed that your heart voice is quite loud and exuberant yet comes out thru your voice in a timid quiet manner?

What does it really take to speak your passion out Loud in the lightness you have in your heart?

You can learn all the technique in the world but if this one thing is not addressed you will continue to have a gap between the passion in your heart and the passion in your voice.

This one thing is….. your  “GIVE A SHIT METER”

The Give a Shit Meter has to do with how much YOU care what OTHERS ARE THINKING OF YOU.  A good indicator that your Give a Shit meter is TOO HIGH is that you are trying TO GET IT RIGHT or that your trying to BE PROFESSIONAL or BE GOOD ENOUGH.

When your Give a Shit Meter is too high it’s time to step back and ask yourself some  simple questions in the vein of:  What is this about? How old was I when I bought into this? Is it safe to not get it “right”?  Asking questions like these will bring awareness to whether or not these beliefs are pertinent to your current moment in time – most of them are way outdated!   Just this awareness can bring your Give a Shit Meter  way down!

So what does it take to speak your passion out loud? The ability to care SO much about sharing your message to the world that you don’t care what anyone else thinks.   When you have the willingness to be the holy fool-to do or be whatever it takes to express the passion in your heart and contribute to others – it is a great indicator that your Give a Shit Meter is nice and low, just where you want it!

– Rebecca Abraxas, AccessYourVoice